This is another "first" which I shall be blogging about: The first cut is the deepest...
Ever wondered why I believed first love never dies? (from my prvious post)
It never dies for me because the memories keep coming back. The first things in our lives are exciting but the most painful ones are of course, curse-worthy (my bad!) I mean, you also would not forget about it like your first broken heart, your first deepest wound, your first dog bite, your first nightmare (I recall my first nightmare!).
What I truly loved about this song despite the seemingly bitter feelings of the singer is it's positive outlook. After my first broken heart, I was tremendously trumpled upon, badly beaten and shattered... but you know "I tried to love again" meaning to have another relationship. It was not the end of the rope and the feeling was so rewarding and worthwhile. And then again you have to let go and then try to love again, and again and again.
I remember this saying from a dear friend:
"Love til it hurts, love til it hurts more
Love more til it hurts, love til it hurts no more" (Something like that)
Sad but its just the way it has to be like what Mother Theresa said:
"We can do no great things; only small things with great love."
Here is the song The first cut is the deepest:
I would have given you all of my heart
but there's someone who's torn it apart
and she's taking almost all that I've got
but if you want, I'll try to love again
baby I'll try to love again but I know
The first cut is the deepest, baby I know
The first cut is the deepest
'cause when it comes to being lucky she's cursed
when it comes to lovin' me she's worst
but when it comes to being loved she's first
that's how I know
The first cut is the deepest, baby I know
The first cut is the deepest
I still want you by my side
just to help me dry the tears that I've cried
cause I'm sure gonna give you a try
and if you want, I'll try to love again
but baby, I'll try to love again, but I know
The first cut is the deepest, baby I know
The first cut is the deepest
'Cause when it comes to being lucky she's cursed
when it comes to lovin' me she's worst
but when it comes to being loved she's first
that's how I know
The first cut is the deepest, baby I know
The first cut is the deepest
First cut is the deepest [ Live ] - Rod Stewart
This song reminds me of a good friend of mine and it gives me hope.